Divorce, Distrust & A Spying App – Story of My Life

Trust is everything in a relationship. It begins with little gestures of love and support and aggrandizes over the time when both partners make life decisions, takes each other’s consent and show transparency with every facet of their lives. Does being very close to someone, like your partner, means no concept of privacy? Well, I never believed in that and I still don't! I was married to someone that I truly loved from my heart and the first year of my married life. It was out of the books—a … [Read more...]

5 Steps Helping You Find Your Love Again | #BehindTheBlogger

True love and soulmates, one of life's greatest life goals. But, achieving it is easier said than done. The concept of love seems pretty simple between everyone, but our needs and expectations can easily get in the way and ruin a perfectly good relationship. Here are 5 steps helping you find your love again, these are based on my personal experience, but hopefully they be of some help to you. Go Through A Heartache. I know that sounds kinda crazy, but when you think about it. You … [Read more...]

You Must Love Yourself, Before You Love Another | #BehindTheBlogger

You know what one of the hardest things is? Learning how to love yourself all over again. Whether you went years without self love or you were in a toxic relationship. Point being, Loving yourself is the hardest thing to train your brain to do. But once you love yourself, you can't stop. It's the best reward you could ever give yourself. I'm a firm believer that you should give 100% to someone when you get into a new relationship. You need to be able to love every ounce of yourself, before … [Read more...]

5 Self Help Books To Take Back Your Life | #FiveFavoriteFriday

I've been on this whole, "taking my life back" phase for the last 3 years. I've never really been much of a book person, until I realized books can take your mind off of how crazy your life is or you can take a break from it. Here are 5 self help books that can help you take back your life. I just checked out the 3rd book on Amazon, it's more of a journal type book, than an actual reading book. Those are my favorite kind. I reckon I can make a new post about it, when I get done with it. I added … [Read more...]

15 Things I Learned One Year After My Divorce

I met what I thought would be the answer to all my problems. But what I didn't know at the time is people can't fix problems, only you can fix your own problems. One year after my divorce by far was the hardest and I survived thus far. I thought I had everything planned out for when I was separated, I was pretty naive. Then I thought once I moved to North Carolina, everything would fall into place without flaw or problems. I would have my own place, I would have a full-time job, school … [Read more...]