10 Lessons I’ve Learned About Pain And Heartbreak

They say you learn a lot through pain and heartbreaks. This can't be more true! I wanted to make this post last year, but just didn't feel like it was the right time. So here's 10 lessons I've learned about pain and heartbreak. I don't want to say that I'm the master of pain, struggles and heartbreaks, but I could definitely write a book about it. Pain & struggles come in all different sizes, in waves,  sometimes you're up and sometimes you're down. What the last 5 years have taught me was.. … [Read more...]

For the Other Woman – 5 Rules to Dating My Ex-Husband

I have been wanting to post this series for awhile now, I mean. I'm sure I could write a book on the top, but we will stick with the 5 Rules to Dating my Ex-Husband. We have been "separated" 8 months now. 8 months.. may not seem like a long time, but let me inform you, it's been a roller-coaster of a 8 months. These last 4 months can't go by fast enough. In the state of VA, you have to be separated (living apart) for 12 months before you can file for divorce. Well during that time, you're also … [Read more...]

The Day I Asked My Husband for a Divorce

I told myself that I wouldn't let what happened the first time get that bad again, I saw that my husband was slipping away and I wasn't sure why. If two people don't try to make something better, it will not get better. One person can't work on something, it's a team effort and this team is breaking up. I asked my husband for a divorce, because I knew he already gave up on me on the inside. I Asked My Husband for a Divorce... What I learned from the first separation (almost divorce) was … [Read more...]